Florida Custody and Co-Parenting Laws
This page provides an educational overview of Florida’s legal framework for custody and co-parenting.
It explains major concepts such as parenting plans, timesharing, parental responsibility, and how courts determine the best interests of the child.
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This is not legal advice. Every case is unique. Consult a licensed Florida family law attorney for guidance on your specific situation.
Paternity and Parental Rights in Florida
For unmarried parents in Florida, the mother has all legal rights and decision-making authority for the child until paternity is legally established. This means the father does not have enforceable rights to timesharing, parental responsibility, or access to school and medical information until paternity is confirmed through the appropriate legal steps.
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If the parents were married when the child was born, paternity is automatically presumed. For unmarried parents, however, paternity must be formally established before the court can issue orders regarding timesharing, child support, or a Parenting Plan.
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Florida law recognizes three ways to establish legal paternity:
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Voluntary Acknowledgment of Paternity (AOP)
A form signed at the hospital at birth or later through the Florida Bureau of Vital Statistics. After 60 days, this acknowledgment becomes a legal determination of paternity unless it is rescinded for fraud or mistake. -
Administrative Order Based on Genetic Testing
The Florida Department of Revenue can order genetic testing as part of a child support proceeding. If the test confirms paternity, an Administrative Order of Paternity is issued without going to court. -
Court-Ordered Paternity Determination
Either parent may file a petition in circuit court. The court may order genetic testing and then enter a final judgment establishing paternity.
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Once paternity is established, both parents have equal standing to request a Parenting Plan, seek timesharing, share major decision-making responsibilities, and participate in the child's upbringing. Establishing paternity early helps ensure the child benefits from the involvement, stability, and support of both parents.
Best Interest of the Child Standard
Florida courts decide all timesharing and parental responsibility matters based on the best interest of the child, using the factors listed in Florida Statute §61.13. State law includes a rebuttable presumption that equal time-sharing (50/50) is in the child’s best interest. This means the court begins with the idea that the child should spend substantial, meaningful time with both parents.
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However, the presumption is not automatic. Either parent may present evidence showing that equal time-sharing would not be in the child’s best interest due to safety concerns, developmental needs, instability, distance between homes, or other significant factors. The court must still evaluate the full set of best-interest considerations before deciding on a final arrangement.
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Judges look at many aspects of a child’s life, including:
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each parent’s ability to meet the child’s daily needs and routines
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the child’s relationship with each parent and the stability of those attachments
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each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent
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home stability, school continuity, and the practical logistics of each schedule
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any history of domestic violence, substance misuse, or other safety concerns
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the child’s needs, temperament, and (when appropriate) expressed preferences
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the ability of the parents to communicate, cooperate, and follow a Parenting Plan
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The guiding principle is always the child’s long-term well-being. While equal time-sharing is the starting point, the court ultimately selects the schedule that provides the child with the most stable, supportive, and developmentally appropriate environment.
Timesharing (Physical Custody)
Florida uses the term timesharing to describe the schedule of when the child is with each parent. Instead of “physical custody” or “visitation,” Florida focuses on how parents share time and maintain a consistent, meaningful presence in their child’s life.
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State law includes a rebuttable presumption that equal time-sharing (50/50) is in the child’s best interest, meaning the court begins with the idea that the child benefits from spending substantial time with both parents. However, this presumption can be overcome if evidence shows that equal time-sharing would not support the child’s well-being, stability, or safety.
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Courts consider the child’s age, routines, school schedule, each parent’s availability, and the distance between homes when designing a timesharing arrangement. Many families do receive equal or near-equal schedules when it fits the child’s developmental needs and the parents’ ability to provide stable, cooperative care.
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Timesharing schedules can take many forms, such as:
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2-2-5-5 or 3-4-4-3 equal schedules
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Week-on/week-off rotations
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Primarily one home during the school week with extended weekends or blocks of time with the other parent
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Gradual transitions for younger children to support attachment and routine
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Florida’s goal is to support a schedule that promotes healthy relationships, consistent caregiving, and a sense of security in both households. Each family’s plan is unique, and the final schedule reflects what the court believes will best meet the child’s long-term needs.
Parental Responsibility (Decision Making)
In Florida, parental responsibility refers to how parents share major decision-making for their child. These decisions include education, medical care, therapy and services, religious upbringing, and other significant matters that affect the child’s well-being.
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Florida law presumes that both parents should share parental responsibility, meaning they work together to make major decisions unless there is evidence that shared decision-making would harm the child. Courts encourage collaboration whenever possible, and parents are expected to communicate respectfully, exchange necessary information, and keep each other informed about the child’s needs.
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In some situations, shared responsibility may not be appropriate. If there are safety concerns, high conflict that cannot be resolved, or a demonstrated inability to jointly make decisions, the court may award:
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Sole Parental Responsibility
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Shared Parental Responsibility with Ultimate Decision-Making
Parents consult with one another, but one parent has final authority in specific areas (such as education or medical care).
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The court selects the structure that best supports the child’s long-term stability and emotional health. Regardless of how responsibility is allocated, both parents are encouraged to remain active, informed participants in the child’s life.
Court Expectations & Co-Parenting Responsibilities
Florida courts expect both parents to contribute to a stable, supportive environment for their child. Regardless of the timesharing schedule or parental responsibility arrangement, parents are encouraged to communicate consistently, follow the Parenting Plan, and prioritize the child’s emotional and physical well-being.
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Courts value behaviors that reduce conflict and support the child’s relationships in both homes. Parents are expected to:
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maintain open, respectful communication focused on the child
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follow the Parenting Plan and make transitions predictable and calm
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share important information about the child’s health, school, and activities
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avoid speaking negatively about the other parent in front of the child
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encourage the child’s relationship with both sides of the family
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be flexible when reasonable, especially for school events, activities, and special occasions
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support routines that help the child feel secure in each household
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When parents demonstrate cooperation, reliability, and child-focused decision-making, it helps create a more stable environment and reduces the likelihood that the court will need to intervene. Florida courts look favorably on parents who show they can work together and keep the child’s needs at the center of their choices.
Parenting Plans
Florida requires a Parenting Plan in every case involving minor children, whether the parents were married or unmarried. The Parenting Plan outlines how the parents will share time, communicate about the child, and make major decisions. It serves as the roadmap for co-parenting and helps reduce conflict by making expectations clear.
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A Parenting Plan must include details about:
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the timesharing schedule, including weekdays, weekends, holidays, and school breaks
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how parents will share major decision-making responsibilities
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the child’s school, healthcare providers, and daily routines
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how parents will communicate with each other about important matters
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how the child will communicate with the other parent when not in their care
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Because the Parenting Plan becomes a court order, both parents are expected to follow it consistently. A clear, thoughtful plan helps the child feel secure, maintains routines between homes, and reduces misunderstandings during transitions.
Creating a Parenting Plan
When creating a Parenting Plan, parents are encouraged to focus on the child’s daily rhythms, developmental needs, and long-term stability. Florida courts look favorably on plans that reduce conflict, support consistency, and give the child meaningful time with both parents. Because the state presumes equal time-sharing is in the child’s best interest, parents should consider whether a 50/50 schedule is workable given their child’s age, school schedule, and the logistics of each household.
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Key factors to consider include:
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the child’s routines, including school, sleep, meals, and activities
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each parent’s work schedule, availability, and ability to meet daily needs
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the distance between homes and the practicality of transitions
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how communication will work during the week and during exchanges
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the child’s age, temperament, and need for consistency
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how school breaks, holidays, and special occasions will be shared
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A well-designed Parenting Plan reflects the realities of the family’s life and provides a clear structure that both parents can follow. When parents collaborate respectfully, it helps the child maintain healthy attachments and feel secure in both homes.
Modifying a Parenting Plan
Over time, a family’s needs may change. In Florida, a Parenting Plan or timesharing schedule can be modified, but the standard is intentionally high. To change an existing plan, a parent must show there has been a substantial, material, and unanticipated change in circumstances and that the proposed modification is in the child’s best interest.
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Changes that may justify a modification include:
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significant shifts in a parent’s work schedule or availability
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relocation that affects the practicality of the current schedule
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ongoing, unresolved conflict that disrupts the child’s stability
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concerns about safety, supervision, or the child’s well-being
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developmental changes that make a different schedule more appropriate
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Even when circumstances evolve, the court prioritizes continuity, stability, and the child’s long-term emotional health. Any modification should be carefully considered, clearly documented, and designed to support the child’s routines and relationships in both homes.
For Mothers
Mothers in Florida often carry a significant role in their child’s daily life, and Florida’s parenting laws are designed to ensure that both parents remain actively involved after separation. Florida does not favor one parent over the other; instead, courts focus on the child’s overall well-being, the stability of each home, and how well parents can support the child’s routine.
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Here are some considerations that can help mothers feel informed and prepared throughout the parenting plan process:
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Your involvement and caregiving experience matter. Courts look at each parent’s role in meeting the child’s day-to-day needs, school responsibilities, and emotional support.
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Clear communication helps everyone. Keeping schedules, school updates, and healthcare information organized makes co-parenting smoother and reduces misunderstandings.
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Documentation protects you. If concerns arise, having factual notes about routines, appointments, and important events can help the court understand your perspective.
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You are not expected to solve every conflict alone. Mediation, parenting coordinators, and written agreements can support consistency and reduce stress.
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Healthy co-parenting is viewed positively. Encouraging your child’s relationship with their other parent is seen as supportive, not self-sacrificing.
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Your voice matters. If you have concerns about schedules, safety, or developmental needs, expressing them clearly and calmly helps the court evaluate what arrangement works best for the child.
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Protecting your child’s emotional space is important. Courts appreciate parents who shield children from adult conflict and maintain routines that support the child’s security.
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Flexibility can help both parents succeed. Small accommodations, when reasonable, help maintain stability and model cooperative parenting for the child.
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Infant needs, including breastfeeding, are valid considerations. Courts take these factors into account while still ensuring both parents remain involved in age-appropriate ways.
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Florida courts aim to support parenting arrangements that allow both homes to feel safe, steady, and nurturing. Mothers who approach the process with clarity, preparation, and a focus on their child’s long-term well-being are well-positioned for positive outcomes.
For Fathers
Fathers in Florida play a vital role in their child’s life, and Florida law recognizes both parents as equally capable of sharing parental responsibility. Courts do not favor one parent based on gender. Instead, they assess the level of involvement, the stability of each home, and how well each parent supports the child’s needs and routines. Fathers who stay proactive, organized, and focused on the child’s well-being are well-equipped to navigate the parenting plan process.
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Key considerations for fathers:
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Your involvement matters at every stage. Participation in schoolwork, medical appointments, routines, and daily care helps the court understand your active role in the child’s life.
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Clear communication builds trust. Keeping messages respectful, informative, and child-focused reduces conflict and supports smoother co-parenting.
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Stay organized and document important information. Notes about schedules, attendance, involvement, and concerns can provide clarity if questions arise later.
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Consistency creates stability. Being punctual, following the time-sharing schedule, and showing reliability reflect positively in court.
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You have a voice in decision-making. Shared parental responsibility means fathers contribute to education, healthcare, activities, and long-term planning.
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Healthy cooperation supports your child’s emotional security. Courts value parents who can work together, share information, and prioritize the child above disagreements.
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Express concerns calmly and clearly. Whether you’re worried about routines, transitions, or developmental needs, presenting issues factually helps the court understand your position.
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Flexibility, when reasonable, benefits everyone. Adjusting plans for school events, activities, or unique circumstances shows problem-solving and commitment to the child.
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Building a strong co-parenting relationship is a long-term investment. Courts look favorably on parents who focus on communication, stability, and ongoing participation in their child’s life.
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Florida courts are focused on solutions that keep children supported, connected, and secure. Fathers who stay engaged, informed, and child-centered are well-positioned for positive, meaningful parenting outcomes.
Breastfeeding Considerations
Breastfeeding can be an important factor when determining time-sharing schedules for infants, but it is not a controlling factor under Florida law. Courts consider breastfeeding as part of the child’s developmental needs, alongside sleep routines, caretaker involvement, and overall stability. The goal is to create time-sharing arrangements that support the child’s nutrition and comfort while also ensuring both parents remain meaningfully involved.
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For newborns and young infants, Florida courts may approve shorter, more frequent time-sharing periods to align with feeding schedules and help maintain a predictable routine. As the child grows, courts generally expect parents to coordinate around pumping, bottle-feeding, and gradual transitions to longer visits or overnights when appropriate. Clear communication about feeding patterns and flexibility from both parents typically supports smoother transitions.
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Breastfeeding should not be used to limit or block the other parent’s involvement unless there is a specific medical or safety concern. Judges look for parenting plans that balance the child’s nutritional needs with the importance of building a strong bond with each parent. Thoughtful cooperation and child-centered planning help provide stability for infants while supporting healthy relationships across both homes.
Florida Family Law Resources & Statutes
For parents who want to review the original Florida laws related to time-sharing, parental responsibility, and Parenting Plans, the following official resources may be helpful:
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Florida Statutes §61.13 — Time-Sharing & Parental Responsibility
(This statute outlines how parenting plans, time-sharing schedules, and major custody decisions are determined in Florida.)
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​Florida Statutes Chapter 742 — Paternity
Covers how paternity is established for children born outside of marriage, including voluntary acknowledgment and court proceedings.
https://www.leg.state.fl.us/statutes/index.cfm?App_mode=Display_Statute&URL=0700-0799/0742/0742.html
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These resources are provided for informational purposes only and can help parents better understand the legal standards used in Florida custody and co-parenting cases.
This page is for educational purposes only and is not legal advice. Always consult a licensed Florida family law attorney regarding your specific situation.